Our host has a great dungeon set up in his basement. He has a St. Andrew's Cross, an exposure chair, stocks, a restraint table, a jail cell and a wide assortment of restraints and toys. He is an awesome host, a great photographer and also makes a wonderful chocolate orange martini! His home is located in a very scenic spot with plenty of nearby locations for photo shoots and beach combing.
This weekend will hold some "firsts." It will be my first time meeting his slave. It will also be my first visit there as a Top. I have already requested a training session with him in the use of his single tail whip, which he affectionately refers to as Snake. I am looking forward to sharing the dungeon with him and his slave. It will also be the first chance I've had to keep Pet "in role" for an extended period of time. I've been toying with some ideas about how I'll work this.
I've decided that when his play collar is on, he is to remain "in role" and a certain level of adherence to protocol will be expected. He will address me exclusively as M'am and seek my permission for everything he does. He will obey me and show gratitude as any good pet should. :-) He will be dependent on me to have his needs met. I will decide when and how aspects of daily living happen. For example, he will sit at my feet on his rug, he will fetch things for me upon command, he will rub my feet upon command, etc. We will also have at least one marathon play session while we are there as well. It will be a challenge for both of us, but I know these are aspects of the dynamic which we both have wanted to explore.
This weekend will also mark a year since Pet and I began playing together. He has already given me a gift - a gorgeous purple flogger which I will use for the first time on this trip. I have a few surprises for him as well, though I'm afraid two will not be ready in time. I'd love to write about them here, but alas, he reads my blog!
After work on Thursday I will be heading off to pick him up. We hope to drive part of the way the first evening and to arrive early in the afternoon on Friday. I'm sure I will have much to blog about upon my return.
In the meantime, I want to acknowledge the supportive role which my Lady is playing through all of this. Even though her desire to see me grow has pushed her own limits over the past two years, she continues to stand by me as I explore my polyamorous/ switch nature. I am very grateful for her love and understanding.